In a lot of cultures, there are a set set of questions that are usually taboo to ask a female. The reason for this is that within every female, no matter how confident and self assured she portrays herself, there is a little girl with esteem issues that comes out when asked the wrong question at the wrong time. Don’t believe me? Guys, walk up to a random female over 35 you don’t know and ask her how old she is. Next time you and the boys are at a party, call a fat chick over and ask her how much she weighs. Heck, even the most trifling of trifling heffas may get her panties up in a bunch if you ask her out of the blue if her hair is real (LOVE doing this one myself). Gals, put yourself in the shoes of the female in each situation and think about how you would feel.
Don't ask; don't tell!
The thing about asking a question that sparks insecurity is that more often than not, the person answering is more consumed with wanting to give you an answer you want to hear rather than the actual truth. Guys, look at it as when a chick would asks you how big your d!(k is and you’d tell her seven inches and you know you you’re barely trickling past four… WITH foreskin. This is why I believe that when you ask someone certain questions, it’s ok for them to lie to you because it’s none of your damn business.
Females tend to get away with what they can ask a guy because most of us don’t “carry feelings” like that or are comfortable with lying from time to time. The same can’t be said the other way around (well, except for the “lying” part 
). However, there is one question I think both genders, ESPECIALLY THE GUYS, need to stop asking one another:
“How many people have you had sex with?”
Didn’t see that one coming huh? As far as “none of your damn business” goes, this to me is the mother of all questions. I don’t even know who even started asking this question or what they hoped to get out of receiving an answer. I speculate that it started with teenagers who were unsure about their own sex game and needed to seek out someone just as inexperienced as them so that the other person is less likely to realize how much they suck. How did it get into the realm of grown adults asking it though?
Chicks ask me this question all the time and I’ve never given them an exact number. Not because I have something to hide, but because I stopped counting after five. I remember late one night back in college a homegirl called me up sobbing saying she wanted to talk. I was playing COD4 and would have told her to screw off but she was one of those chicks I REALLY wanted to bang so it became an opportunity to score some “points” with her.
We sat in her car outside my place for a few hours and she was telling me about her troubles with her boyfriend back home (music to my ears) and how people were telling him that she’s “slutting it up” in school (JACKPOT). Apparently this dude started questioning her about EVERYTHING and even went as far as saying he doesn’t want someone he can’t trust as a girlfriend. When she said that she broke down crying and told me, “I can’t believe he said that and he’s the only I’ve ever slept with. I’m nowhere near to being a slut. I’ve only ever kissed three guys in my entire life and they were all my boyfriends!”
Sad to say, anything else she said to me that night automatically went in one ear and out the other. The only thing going through my mind was, “Who the hell keeps track of a statistic like that? Matter of fact, how are you 20, so frigging attractive, been dating this guy for less than a few months, and have ONLY kissed four guys in your entire life?” The reason that was so alarming to me was because I knew that on any given day, I couldn’t tell you the number of chicks I’ve slept with much less the number of chicks I’ve made out with within the last two years. Whenever I say this to a chick who has asked “the question” they all instantaneously come to the one conclusion of, “Damn, you’re a slut!”
I resent that because it’s not like I’ve been sleeping around on the few chicks I’ve actually dated. In true “man law” fashion I just shrug that off like it’s nothing. I mean a couple chicks here and there thinking I’m a slut isn’t going to change anything right? It certainly hasn’t so far. All the chicks in the world could know a guy is the biggest slut of life and they’d still throw the cooch at him in hopes of him “wife-ing” them. However, chicks really get the crappy end of the stick when it comes to this because if word gets out that she’s a “slut”, the only guys trying to holla at her will be the ones going through “droughts” or looking to score a gang bang with some homies. Which leads me to the question I’ve always asked:
How much is “too many” in order to be a slut?
If there is a set number or range to answer this question, I’d like to know (I’m talking to the guys here more so than the chicks). Some chicks I know are “just sluts” plain and simple. I have two personal but somewhat biased definitions of a slut:
- A female who has a tendency to be committed to someone but still sleep with another person. If it’s with me or with a hott chick then she’s not a slut; she’s just “exploring other options” -REAL
- A female who has sex with numerous persons WITHOUT (most important part here) making sure they wear condoms.
However, some guys label a slut as being a chick who has had sex with four or more guys. Now it’s OK to have that type of mentality if you’re both 16, but when you’re in your 20’s? ARE YOU FRIGGING KIDDING ME??!!
I had a conversation about this with some dudes outside a club.
"I'm telling you dog, she's a hoe!"
I was out front trying to return a call to someone who called me when I was inside. When I was looking to head back in, I bumped into these three dudes. One of them informed me that there were these two chicks who were eye phuq-ing me on the dance floor. He called their names and the third dude who wasn’t really a part of the conversation suddenly came to life because he recognized one of them. He then informed us that she was a major slut and that these two dudes who lived in his building used to bang her. At that moment, we all lost respect for her and she moved from being a hottie to a “club rat”. Then common sense kicked in.
I turned to him and asked if he ever tried to get with her before, and he confirmed that he has numerous times but never got anywhere. I then asked if these two dudes were banging her the same time. He revealed they were not and that one of them was actually her boyfriend at the time and the other was this dude she was on and off with in high school. The other two dudes now were starting to realize how easily they were misled. The guy then told me that those were only the two guys he knew of that she slept what and that God alone probably knows how many others there may have been.
I asked the three of them, “How many is ‘too many’?” and the answers I got were between five and seven. They asked me for my “cutoff number” and I said, “Really, she could have told me 20 and I wouldn’t care. As long as she can assure me that they all wore condoms and she’s never caught “anything” before, that’s fine with me. In fact, I’d probably like her more for the fact that she can be that REAL with me.” They all looked at me like I was snorting rocks. I realized that they still had the mentality of an adolescent as a lot of dudes unfortunately do when it comes to this topic. So it was now up to me to educate them on how easy it was for even the most “innocent” female my age (24) to have slept with seven guys. I gave them something similar to this scenario:
Let’s say she had her first boyfriend for two years at age 15. They started having sex at 16 (1) before they broke up when she was 17 because he found bigger titties to lick. She then spends a few months resenting men and making out with chicks at parties before she meets her next boyfriend. They date and have sex (2) but break up when they go off to different colleges at 18. At orientation she meets this new guy and they take it slow for a few months and after a while, she’s 19 with a boyfriend she’s having sex with (3). In second year at 20, the boyfriend decides that college and relationships don’t go together and she walks in on him with another chick and they break up. She spends the rest of second year totally focused on school and not guys. In third year at 21, after a hectic exam week, her friends an her go to this party and she get totally wasted and some guy ends up getting the skins in a bathroom (4).
"Dude, guess who took Emmett's virginity!"
She vows to never drink again and gives up on that and entering her final year at 22, she meets this guy she went to high school with who just transferred. They date and have sex (5), and after graduating they move into an apartment downtown together. A year later at 23, things grow stale and he moves out. Their mutual friend who lives a floor or two down is still around and she kicks it with him now because she never really socialized much outside of her having her boyfriend (we all know “sprung” chicks like this). One night when the moon was full and yadda yadda yadda, he used the right line and they looked into each others’ eyes for a split second too long and end up having sex (6).
Afterwards, she tells him she feels bad about having sex with someone she’s not dating and how it’s going to mess up the friendship (you know how chicks get) so he stops wasting his erections on her and cuts her off (YEEAAAHHHH BOOOIII). Skip a few months and she rings in her 24th birthday lonelier than an aborted fetus in a dumpster. Her girls at work eventually get her into checking out the local club scene with them and she likes it. Two months in, she’s just swept off her feet by this guy who’s everything she THINKS is everything she wanted (chicks don’t ever know what they REALLY want) in a guy. She got caught up in the hype and it turns out he was just in it to be in “it”. Two to three months later when he finally did (7), he bounced because backing up the lie of owning a supermarket chain is expensive.
They sort of started to see things my way but I could tell that the notion of “no more than 5-7” was embedded too deeply in their persona for it to be changed by some random dude outside a club.
Quit messing up the game
Chicks know about the “5-7” rule that a lot guys have and it’s because of this knowledge the “the game” is being messed up in a few ways. The first and foremost is that they are now more enticed to lie about how many guys they have slept with so as not to fall into your “slut” bracket. I mean, if a lot of the girls you know are REAL with you, that magic number of “three” could probably be multiplied by itself to find out how many guys she really has slept with… in the last five years…
Look at the scenario of the “innocent” give I gave above. Imagine her now as a girl you like/are currently having sex with and you know she likes sex and is sexually active. Factor in the fact that her last “serious” boyfriend was about a year or two ago and she’s the type of girl who is extroverted, likes partying and clubbing, and socializing and having a good time. It paves the way to more realistically seeing how many guys she potentially could have had sex with (especially if you’re in a big city or she travels often); as well as starting to show how idiotic the “5-7” rule is logically. Now with all of that taken into consideration, do you think she’s a slut by your definition? If you do now and you didn’t before then you likely have a lot of growing up to do.
Think about how much you like sex and the fact that if you had the power to make any chick you saw want to have sex with you, you would probably be banging a different chick every day. Chicks somewhat (because I don’t believe in letting poon have control over me) have that power when it comes to a lot of guys. If anything we should be commending them for ONLY having sex with 10 or less guys in their years of being sexually active. God knows why he didn’t give me, or too many hott chicks with my mentality a cooch. If it came to that, I’d be swimming in dough and the only work I’d be doing would be on my back! (or whatever other positions are required to get that paper) -REAL
HA HA HA!!! More seriously though, if you do came to find out that a chick is lying about her “number”, we shouldn’t be quick to jump down her throat because it is our own fault she had to stoop to lying in the first place. You know, the question that we really SHOULD be asking chicks is, “You not a virgin right?”
"These" we can do without...
Ponder about that for a second. Remember every single girl you’ve whipped out your tube steak to and didn’t know what to do with it? She couldn’t ride it good, ran from it, yanked it like it wasn’t attached to you, put both your balls in her mouth and tried closing it not knowing it wasn’t the thing to do, etc. in every situation like that, you wished she had a little more “slut” in her huh? Where do you think she’s going to get that extra “slut” experience? FROM PHUQ-ING OTHER GUYS!!!
If I had to ask a chick for her “number” on anything it’ll be the amount of times she’s had sex and I ideally wouldn’t want it to be less than 25 (10 in the absolute cutoff point though). This idea of pressuring a chick to have the lowest “number” possible only leads to one thing: more virgins. Riddle me this though: what’s more synonymous with “virgins” than “bad sex”? NOTHING! Besides, this idea also leads to that “post hymen busting” mentality in chicks where they become overly clingy and are on your d!(k about everything. If we’re all REAL, we know no guy likes that “second shadow” girlfriend, so why are we nurturing the environment for that type of behavior to thrive in? C’MON SON!!!
Every guy wants a girlfriend who can be a slut; but not a girlfriend who is a slut. –REAL
Signing off
The pressure that we have placed on chicks when it comes to this subject is crazy. We’re telling them to be sexy but not have sex. This is probably one of the very few cases where I can agree with a female when she says that guys are complicated. If you’re reading this and feeling me on it (no homo), then help me spread the “good word” and clear the dark fog that has enshrouded our woman folk and their sex lives. Really guys, at the end of the day, if this continues we’ll be cast back into an era of “no sex before marriage” and that’s not the world I want my future son to grow up in. ESPECIALLY when he has to pay 20 bucks to get in on ladies night, deal with a 1:5 guy to chick ratio, and survive an onslaught of glares from heffas seeking promise rings when “Single Ladies” comes on. DO IT FOR THE KIDS!!!
P.S.: If you’re a guy reading this and you’ve asked “the question” before or still actively do, drop me a line in the comments and let me know why so I can maybe better understand. I’d really hate to think that there are so many punk b1t(he$ out there giving chicks heat over nothing.
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Because NOBODY can handle the truth about that question.
I can’t even answer it… Who actually keeps count though?
EXACTLY!!!
“Great minds”… LOL
LOVE!
Just last night I saw this girl’s profile in my facebook friend suggestions and ONLY THEN did I remember that we had sex before. It’s fucked up.
The only danger in dating a slut is the potential for embarrassment when they act brand new with you and then their past comes back to haunt them. But you can’t blame em. If they want to settle with a ‘good guy’ then what’s the chance of a ‘good guy’ sticking around with them and taking them home to momma after she confesses her slut status to them???
I can honestly feel their pain but at the same time… I can feel my ego screaming at me to put my guard up because it sees a right hook coming straight at my jawbone.
So it all boils down to Ego vs Desire when it comes to wifing a slut.
PS: Slut isn’t about the amount of guys that a chick sleeps with… it’s about the mentality that went along with the sleeping around.
“Slut” apparently are not having that much trouble landing good guys bro. I can name a few relationships for you with that one but I’m not here to start $h!t, ha ha ha ha. I’m sure if you think about it you’ll realize you prob know some peeps in the said situation; we all do.
Potential slut or not, the rule of thumb is to ALWAYS keep your guard up because you can’t trust chicks (well at least not 100%) with your feelings. Always gotta leave room for doubt so you can pick up on the subtle signs that things are potentially going downhill.
@PS: Agree with that 100% bro!
I still ask that question. Let me throw some probability into the equation: these days more men you have slept with the more likely you to have caught “something”. I remember seeing the chart @ a clinic showing that ever person you sleep with your sleeping with who they slept with and so on… I’m sure some of you have seen it. Realistically a chick that likes sex that much and commits 100% condom use is super rare. So 5 in that case is more like 15 technically. I disagree that you need a high body count ie:10-25 to be experience and versatile in bed. Reminds me of Kanye West’s track “blame game” where she says “yeezy taught me …yezzy taught you well” ….maybe chicks can gain that from one talented more experience partner such as myself without sacrificing “the tightness” and risk being labeled a slut.
HA HA HA HA!!! I’m not gonna doubt your “gangsta” or your game bro, but some of them (as we’d say back home) “tek telling like one donkey” (have a steep learning curve). The same clinic poster stat applies to you as well when it comes to sex and males are generally more sexually active/promiscuous that females. That said, does it make you want to have sex with less partners so that a chick won’t think of you “like that”?
My thing here is to address the double standard that’s there on this subject. Sure there are a lot of other double standards I could address with regards to males and females but this is the only one messing with the poontang pool. Feel me?
LOL i agree there are lots of double standards boss…but let me give you lil experiment that illustrates my point of view why a low count is more important for females…buy pair of rubber gloves, just your size that fits nicely to your hands. Then go to football team and have 15 random big black men each take turns wearing and stretching out you gloves for a day, when you do get it back let me know if it still fits a comfortable as the day you bought it LOL in physics i think it called Hooke’s law of elasticity….this my friend is the difference between a 24year old how’s been with 4 guys and a 24 year old who just had her 3rd big head baby
tell me which you would enjoy most 
HA HA HA!!! I’ll be careful.
LMFAO
ARRRRRRRRRR HA HA HA HA HA HA!!!!! NICE!!!! Tell you what, you guys keep shunning the “slut” and sending them my way, and I’ll send all the virgins your way to break in. Deal?
LOL
LOL Deal! …just be careful when you driving on worn out tires, cuz they got no grip
if you know what i mean.
The issue of a girl or a guy (don’t forget the guys are not immune) having caught “something” can be resolved with some mutual testing. Also commiting 100% to condom use should be no question, especially if you do like sex. Nothing puts a stopper on your sex life like an HIV or similar. Plus females don’t lose our logic when horny like some men tend to.
Chicks tend to go for the guys who are ‘sluts’ though while guys only tend to ‘fuck’ the ‘sluts’.
The only guys who wife sluts WANTED THEM LONG TIME & DON’T GIVE A FUCK!
…that or them jus dunce
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I like this post and I like your attitude on this, mister, breaking things down from multiple perspectives.
There is a tactic females do use to keep the numbers down that is called recycling. So when an ex gf or fwb hits you up. If might not be because she particulary misses you, it could just be that she is horny and you are the most feasible of her already tallied number.
…oh I know that alright…
HA HA HA HA!!!
LMAO at the glove theory ..SMH whats the difference in fucking 15 different guys that amounted to 100 times.. than fucking 1 guy 100 times.. its the same thing!!! if u have doubts bout her status BOTH of u need to get tested…simple… asking ppl how much u slept with is none ur biz thats how i see it… its a bit high school… u having grip issues maybe ur too small or so her hole stay not all women loose thier grip u ever meet on turkle flesh sistah??? hmmm but this was a good read cheers!
AMEN DUTTY DANCER!!! That’s exactly how I see it! ^_^
@Duttydancer …personally I blame it on MY “small island” mentality….hard for me to walk down high street with my girl who’s approaching triple digits or not somehow notice the looks I get in a party….wen ur ina place where everybody knows everybody…MY ego makes its a bit difficult 4 me to let go of that mental insecurity knowing she’ seen more hotels then my tour suitcases, seen more miles than a rental an Avis
tru i hear that hun.. i too am guilty of that being that i always use to hear this n that about my man prior hooking up with him tho…and it made me skeptical about even giving him a chance… i dont like to judge tho.. we became close and cool and if is one thing i admire about him is his honesty (even tho i didn’t really need to know by face the chicks he use to fuck etc.. but he was honest and i must commend him for that!) now my love for him is slowly making me let go of all that shit i heard n know about his past… everybody needs love.. hoes eventually get tired of sleeping around… so ur best bet if u really meet a chick with a questionable promiscuous past get tested n move on fuck what ppl think.. cuz the same ho u maybe have doubts about would be the only one there when ur down… cheers!
AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!! That was sooo gay and mushy; but truthful at the same time!
*sings*
“DuttyDancer and *insert name here* sitting in a tree…”
“get tested n move on fuck what ppl think.” i LOVE that ..might quote you on a t-shirt
I know we shouldn’t judge and some have the view that “the past is past…leave it there it not ur business”….however i think your past still tells a lot about your character and the kinda choices you make (i know ppl change but i wanna know u changed)…if i’m dating the potential mother of my daughter…I can’t throw caution to the wind, I’m gonna inquirer about your sexual history, because your character IS my business.
Ouu, you forgot the forward slash to close the strong tag bro! “”
So let me ask you then, how do you feel about being asked that question? I get what you’re saying in regards to their character being your business, but if the person has been down “that road” and is now offering themselves up to actually being “wifey” material, don’t you think they deserve a shot at that without you being judgmental in the “getting to know you” phase?
This is why I said the I don’t wrong chicks for lying about their “number” when asked about it by guys who seem obsessed by it. I understand that your reason for asking and I respect that, but if you and I are REAL with each other, we both know that 85% of guys who are are just asking to boost their ego in knowing I’m hitting this and nobody else is / not many before me have. That’s the bigger reality of situation; feel free to call me out on it if you beg to differ.
LOL whatever BEEF!!! lmao n o i meant ” if u really like** a chick u meet with a questionable promiscuous past…”
lol tru…YES your right her character is your business…. but u can tell a lot about ppl’s character other than trying to pry into their sexual past… why base it on who all dem done sex? is sex really that powerful? any form of sex b 4 marriage is an immoral act (what does that say about our characters now? that we are sinners?LOL) b 4 we judge ppl we should look at our self too! situations differ.. i mean a girl really gets offended when a guy goes their with them u know… not even the ones who know they have been around n are ashamed, but the mere fact u wanna judge or asses their character based on that? SMH..why go there to get to know her?….how many ppl in ur life u respect and see that they have high standing morals and u don’t/didn’t know shit about their sex life? once u take the time to know them .. u should pick up signs man… not all girls and men who like plenty sex are bad ppl… I think guys ask cuz they think its easier/faster way to evaluate some one based on that rather than taking the time to really get to know them… if u really leaving it up to that what if the chick lies and tell u a far less number than she really fucked?… as beef said its very sticky answering that question cuz most chicks WILL LIE …. u shouldn’t have to ask a chick how much man she sleep with for know the typa person she b… they’re alot of other things u can do to know her character make up scenarios n get her take on them… ask other questions… test her in real life situations…. b 4 u put ur all in… just observe and trust me u’ll see the typa person she is…. real love TAKES TIME bedroom business should be private that’s why its done there between two ppl… (and for the freaks 3 or more LOL)
thanks..my bad
OMG…i never said thats d ONLY fact i basing her character on, i know a lot of other stuff count…sorry u got the wrong idea there.
whether she lies or tell the truth, even just how openly she responds to question says something about her character. most chicks won’t admit they ran a train with the basketball team in college…but just as how you “admire your guy for his honesty” i would rather hear from her …than one day taking a sweat on the court.
btw..the new gloves analogy was just me shit talking with beef…my intent was not to objectify women as objects that are passed around ..hope you’ll out there didn’t take offence.
(i recommend the series “lie to me” on FOX, we use more that just words to answer)
OH YEAH I WAS TO COMMEND MANDINA ON THE RECYCLING TIP.. U A ONE REAL GYAL!!! THATS WHY I ALWAYS LEAVE MY EX’S ON A GOOD NOTE
U NEVER KNOW U MIGHT NEED THEM IN THE FUTURE FOR SOMETHING AHAHAHAHA
I ask about girls’ numbers, not as a means of putting them in any ‘ho category’, but out of curiosity. I find it interesting to know that that choir girl who’s always in church and getting all A’s in class and looks so sophisticated, classy and proper isn’t actually as asexual as she seems. Like someone else said, being a slut isn’t because of any magic number that you pass, because no one can show me any scientific evidence that shows that taking this 7th dick today has turned the pum from the Ferrari it was yesterday into a unicycle after the nut has been busted.
It’s about mentality. If you slept with Tom, Dick and Brutha Joe because you really liked all of them and wanted to be close to them physically as well as mentally, cool. If you slept with them cuz “they drive nice cars”, not cool. Like I said some time ago, having high standards doesn’t make you a good girl. Only fucking guys that drive BMW’s is a high standard. Its not a substantive standard, and thats what makes all the difference.
Anyway, I’ma still ask how many guys she sleeps with because (1) I don’t believe anything girls say anyway, lol so if I get what sounds like a straight answer, I have a lot more respect for that girl cuz hearing “only 3″ is getting old, (2) all the girls I sleep with get std tested, cuz fuck condoms (you’d have to trust her on how often she uses them anyway and like I just said, I don’t trust what they tell me), and (3) I’m from Antigua bro….I need to know how many guys I see every day have already been up in there so I kno to expect the chuckles when I decide to hold her hand in public.
See? It all comes back to that “ego” thing and knowing if somebody you know already had sex with her as well as wanting to feel like you’re part of some form of “elite group of cocks” that has been up in her. SMH
I get you on your other points though
. I’m just saying that ya’ll shouldn’t cry down a chick because she’s “used goods” and you yourself aren’t that much “newer”. Tell me something though, would you rather the chick who had sex with five different guys one time or two guys 100 times?
Let’s say she got played by five guys she loved but they only wanted the cooch. Compared to the other chick who had her bf for 5 years but has been going behind his back with me for just as long. When you ask for their “number” you’re going to be putting up your wall of “judgment” against the wrong chick.
lol of course it has to do with ego. Show me a man that doesn’t care about his ego and I’ll show you a damn liar, lol. Your last sentence there is wrong, because I don’t ask how many guys she’s been with and stop there. I always ask her ABOUT them. “So you’ve been with 10 guys huh? All bfs? No? All one night stands? Ok cool.” Just asking a number and moving on with life is retarded, cuz that doesn’t give you much information at all. Its not THE question, its part of a series. So hearing her number wouldn’t make me put up a wall of judgement. Hearing her number and slutty reasons, would make me put up that wall.
Its not a double standard the way you’re making it out to be though. Men and women just care about different shit. We always have and always will. A man cares how many other men have fucked his girl….a woman cares about how many other girls he’s told he loves, (for example). Of course women care about the amount of women you’ve slept with, but not for the same reason you care how many men she’s been with. You care because u want to kno how many men have fucked her period. U dont really care about why or whatever…it bothers u that other ppl have been in “YOUR” woman. Cuz ur a man…we’re possessive like that. Just our nature. A woman now cares how many women you’ve slept with because of what that means for her. If you’ve slept with 100 girls, how the hell is she gonna trust that she’s ‘the one’ and not just miss 101. Things like that. So I don’t think its a double standard per se. Men and women just care about different shit.
Point taken but umm, quick question: how many chicks have you slept with?
lol are u a girl who’s thinking about banging me? No? Then none a ya damn business
You see how life phuq up? LOL
i hear that all in all i know NOW it all boils down to a mans ego….
@devilsAdvocate “Slut is not a number but a mentality” .. i couldn’t agree more!!!
but 4 those of you who watch sports …stats are a reflection of who you are …M, Jordan can’t say I’m not a good basketball player, I just score lots of point and win lots of championships…..same way ….Lacey cant say I’m not a slut although I’m only 21 and been with more men than my age, i just really like there
penisi mean personality…LOL …if you have the MENTALITY, you numbers will get high EVENTUALLY.How many chicks have you slept with tciori?
lol..why u calling me out so boss?? …i’m still in single digits ..thats the most i’ll say online
LMAO
, saw that one coming 
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Ok. I applaud thee for this post, you even get a comment … REAL as usual… so I agree with your take on this matter, as a matter of fact I’ll go as far as saying anything that happened in past relationship should remain there (to an extent). Some people (men and women) do need to grow up and just stop with the foolish mentality…
I need to get a “like” button for these posts, LOL
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*runs off to go try and implement one*
WOOP WOOP!!! So said; so done!!! Only took me a half hour too!
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